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Finding your PERFECT Afghan wife/husband or let them find you
This is not about some weird online dating agency which puts together boys and girls who can have “fun” and have a fight and just walk away from each other.
THIS IS NOT AN ADVERTISEMENT
IT’S FREE TO FIND OUT MORE
Don’t be old fashioned and say “oh I don’t need to use the internet for that, I got family who will arrange everything”
If you have that possibility that’s great but what you are about to find out will blow your mind away because when I say perfect I mean PERFECT. But don’t get extremely high hopes and get disappointed, it’s not a miracle, be open-minded and prepare to be united with other Afghans.
If you are serious about finding someone special or them finding you who are just perfect for you read on..........
I will tell you about a solution which is NEW and it has 90% success rate. But it only works for Afghans if we unite and get together; it’s about time for us to unite and lead happier lives.
I AM NOT ASKING YOU TO JOIN A LAME DATING AGENCY
Taking life seriously and making a little effort to find your perfect life partner is not something bad so no one should be ashamed about it. We have to face it; it’s becoming very difficult for new generation Afghans to find the right partner. Humans developed mentally every year yet our old Afghan tradition of arranged marriage is still from hundreds of years ago. Some people who have completely abandoned the tradition are having even more problems.
I am sure we all know at least one couple from the new generation who are not getting along very well having arguments everyday and not much in common, different views and personalities. I know few couples that are like that I have seen Afghans ending up in courts divorcing each other, separations sometimes there are very young children involved who are about to lose one of their parents. It’s very sad to see these things happen to Muslim Afghans, not only it’s very damaging to their family reputation but it ruins lives. It’s not just the couple who will be suffering but two families will be going through a lot of pain when two people who don’t get along get married.
Afghan couples who fight a lot are mostly due to personality, habits and interests clashes and families who arrange marriages over look those things and just “hope” they will get along, well hoping is not enough. They should think it through and match couples who have a lot of things in common, but then again our parents don’t know much about us or doesn’t understand us that well, they have grown up in a completely different world to us so I don’t blame them. And letting a guy and a girl get to know each other is deemed bad in our culture which makes life really difficult, but there could be a solution to this. (Read Part 2)
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Sep 17, 2007
8:29 AM
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Okay you might get bored if I talk more, so I will tell you what I am talking about. It’s called PARSHIP.COM. It is similar to an online dating service but it has a lot more to offer than just finding a girl for a guy. Or other way round. PARSHIP.COM is safe and discreet it doesn’t show much of your personal details to people if you don’t want to and it’s FREE to sign up. And why its different to other online dating services:
It asks you to take a psychological test (30 mins long) and it assesses your personality; the test covers 30 specific aspects of your personality that influence your relationships and based on your personality it will find you other people whom you might get along with, people with similar personalities, interests and habits it shows you a compatibility score by percentage, the higher the percentage the better you might get along.
But the negative side is that it doesn’t ask for your ethnic background, religion or culture. But it has a section of “What my partner should know about me” where we can write things like I am Afghan, Muslim etc.
So after finding people with similar personality to yours, you just have to see if they are Afghan or not. But remember finding someone with similar personality, habits and interests is not enough for us Afghans to have a good life with them. They have to be Afghan too because the psychometric test may cover a lot of things but it doesn’t cover everything, so don’t forget that, don’t get carried away, don’t forget your culture and where you are from.
BECAUSE IF YOU CHOOSE SOMEONE FROM A DIFFERENT CULTURE, THERE WILL BE RELIGION AND CULTURAL CLASHES WHICH ARE EVEN WORSE THAN PERSONALITY CLASHES.
IT WILL WORK FOR AFGHANS IF WE ALL UNITE AND JOIN AND TAKE IT SERIOUSLY, IT’S FREE TO JOIN.
Send this to all Afghans you know, ask everyone you know to join and tell them to make sure they put their ethnic background, religion and culture on the “What my partner should know about me” section.
It will work if we want it to work, it will not work if you think it won’t work.
I think I have covered just about everything there but if you want to discuss anything regarding this issue message me.
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Sep 17, 2007
8:30 AM
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